Dramatic Stress

Okay. Everyone goes through it, especially in high school. I like to call it dramatic stress. Over analyzing everything from boys/girls to more boys and girls. "It's so complicated! I love him but he loves her!" I'm not trying to be mean by mimicking people who say that but don't think I'm a bitch. I've felt that way before too so don't say you don't know what it's like when I do. Well, at least I used to.

I used to feel like I loved him but I never did and probably never do. I'm in high school. I don't love him, I used to like him but I don't anymore. Isn't it ironic how we go through so many crushes when you're a teenager? You say you love them but then you find somebody better. It's really weird. You'll cry about unrequited love and then you see a random hottie pass you by and make those googly eyes and drool once again.

Dramatic stress, I think it is made in our heads to be bigger than it truly is. Do I really like him/her? Does he really like her/him? We ask ourselves this over and over again when we shouldn't even bother. A lot of people I know tell their boyfriends/girlfriends that they love them but I doubt they really do. Infatuation and love really are practically the same. The difference is that one is an illusion of the other, those feelings are fake, infatuation is just fake love. We go through over analyzing our feelings for someone when the truth is we don't even have feelings for them. It was just a waste of time.

Everyone should stop wasting their time and stop being naive. If they do, they could finally open their blind eyes and see the only thing that they were looking for was waiting for them to realize they were there. Open your eyes, you'll see something you never dreamed of seeing. And you like it, you'll love it.